Chosen Tribe & Living Sanctuary

Table for Ten:
The Living Sanctuary

Not an internet fantasy and not an HR seminar. A real, working chosen family of twelve unbroken years anchored across Second Life and Discord, built on clear authority, fierce loyalty, shared midnight builds, and relentless laughter.

Declan Drogo and the Tribe

Top Row (L to R): Sookie, Rae, Declan (Center), Nadia, Kelly • Bottom Row (L to R): Gretta, Aph, Stevie, Kitten

Official Sanctuary Roster
Head of House12+ Years Unbroken

Declan Drogo

Patriarch • Resident Live DJ • Household Anchor

The sole person legally and emotionally responsible for the entire circus. About 57, rugged and sexy, chiseled beard, heavily tattooed neck and chest. Balancing enterprise contracts by daylight, midnight parcel builds, and weekend live DJ sets at Hotwife Hotel.

Signature Fashion Theme: Rugged Tailored Gentleman / Silver-Fox Patriarch

Tailored navy European suits with vests (unbuttoned showing neck ink), open-collar linen shirts with leather suspenders, polished boots, and quiet masculine authority.

The Married Core: Five Wives

They carry the family name overhead in Second Life, share my vows, and steer this sanctuary.

Core Wife #112+ Years

Rae

The Godmother & Emotional Center
"The one who poured the footings with me when the estate was nothing more than an empty parcel of raw terrain."

Declan’s original core wife who poured the footings of the family twelve years ago.

Theme: Regal Gothic Elegance / Dark Fae Haute Couture
Core Wife #211+ Years

Sookie

The Comedy Engine & Shop Steward
"OSHA requires an industrial permit before you insert any shaft that dry in front of witnesses."

Keeps Declan’s ego in check with continuous teasing while fiercely loyal.

Theme: Cyber Glam / Y2K Bimbo-Chic / High-Gloss Playful
Core Wife #39+ Years

Nadia

Devoted Anchor & Powerhouse
"Living without deceit or shame because everyone operates with mature adult communication and mutual respect."

Rock-solid anchor who bridges deep submissive devotion with fierce independence.

Theme: Dark Bohemian Punk / Occult Fae Rebel
Core Wife #48+ Years

Kelly

Master Builder & Craftswoman
"When Kelly stepped into the circle as a core wife, nobody had to announce it; the roots were already six feet deep."

Transforms complex 3D virtual terrain into works of art; calm and loving presence.

Theme: Glamorous Curvy Coquette / High-Femme Pastels
Core Wife #5Newest Core Wife

Stevie

Quiet Courage & Rebuilding
"When you have watched the ground swallow the person you built a life with, you recognize the cadence of that loss across a crowded room."

Brings warmth, creativity, and quiet strength to the family core.

Theme: Boho Cottagecore / Sun-Kissed Floral Sweetheart

The Bedrock Veterans

Woven permanently into the timber of our estate for over a decade.

Gretta

10+ Years
The Daytime Discord Anchor & Sarcasm Engine

Lives solo, fiercely independent, questions Declan’s sanity daily, anchors the house.

Theme: Nature Fae / Botanical Dark Romance / Poison Ivy Couture

Aph

12+ Years (Original Bedrock)
The Warrior Caregiver

Sheds her armor at our table, roasts Declan until his ears ring, loved and protected.

Theme: Tomboy Alt-Rebel / Gym-Goth Streetwear

Kitten

10+ Years
Mischievous Neko Girl & Playful Instigator

Pure play, absurdity, and laughter. CRITICAL RULE: NO FRYING PANS!

Theme: Kawaii Harajuku / Neko Coquette / Floral Lolita
Permanent Sanctuary Philosophy

And the Tenth Chair

At the end of our dining table sits the Tenth Chair. It stays unbolted, open, and warm. In a world full of isolation, lonely apartments, and broken homes, every true sanctuary keeps a seat waiting for whoever needs to set their heavy pack down and find a home.